Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research

What Real Masculinity Looks Like | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

As many men gravitate toward “performative masculinity” with matcha lattes and gym-bro culture trending, masculinity is losing its genuine essence. 

But Prophet Muhammad ﷺ showed what real, balanced masculinity looks like: strength without ego and gentleness without weakness. Imam Tom explores how to move beyond labels and embody a timeless example of authentic manhood. 

Tom Facchine

Tom Facchine

Tom Facchine (pronounced fa-KEEN-ee) converted to Islam in 2010 as he was finishing his BA in Political Science. For the next few years he studied Islam and Arabic with local teachers while working with Muslim youth, founding and directing youth groups in two different communities. In 2015 he was accepted into the University of Madinah and is now close to completing a bachelor’s degree in Islamic Law. In addition to youth group activities, for the past two years Tom has directed an after school program for young Muslims called the Ramadan Academy, which operates out of the GCLEA mosque in Cherry Hill, New Jersey. Tom’s academic and personal background brings a unique dual ability to relate to mainstream Western cultural norms and engage them from a traditional Islamic perspective. His unique teaching style is highly interactive and brings high-level concepts to a level that even children can understand. He is passionate about building relationships with Muslim youth and giving them the tools and confidence to live as observant, well-adjusted people of faith in our times.